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In this episode of the Keiser Human Performance Podcast, Christian Straka shares insights into performance training, coaching philosophy, and the practical application of strength and conditioning principles.
The discussion explores how effective training programs are built around intention, consistency, and adaptability — highlighting the importance of tailoring approaches to the individual while maintaining a strong foundation in proven methods. Straka also dives into real-world coaching experiences, offering perspective on how to bridge the gap between theory and application.
This episode provides valuable takeaways for coaches, practitioners, and athletes looking to elevate performance through smarter, more intentional training strategies.
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Christian Straka, how are we doing today? I'm doing wonderful. How are you, Gabe? I'm doing great.
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What's new in your world, man? You know what's new? I guess writing a book right now. So, that's
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definitely new. But other than that, really, I'm spending all of my time around my favorite kind
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of subject and theme in my life with this kind of like developing the mind via mindfulness practices
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and talking about it. So that's why we're here and explaining it to people who are interested in it
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and and just diving deeper and practicing myself as much as I can is kind of really, you know,
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where where I'm at. Awesome. Is it too early to plug the new book? I think so. I think so. We're
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like just in the first draft. No, we we'll update the episode notes when we're finally ready for
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it. Yeah. But that's very exciting. Is this your first time writing a book? It is my first term
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writing a book. I have for many years really had this kind of desire to write a book and I
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think it's like many people have it all right once they are very interested in a subject for a long
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time and then they kind of just want to write it down and in my case it's about mindfulness
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and tennis specifically because I've also played tennis my whole life and been teaching tennis my
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whole like after I stopped playing and then with a dear friend of mine and former player
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who has also been meditating really his whole and has been very successful on the tour. We we
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eventually ended up working together when he won the his last world championships in doubles and
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you know now 10 years later or something we said come let's just do it together. So we we are um
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through the first rough draft we have accomplished that so that's kind of a big milestone but now the
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nitty-gritty is kind of where it's at. Yeah I'm super excited to talk about this topic today. Uh,
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we haven't had a guest on here yet to discuss mindfulness. Um, last summer or last fall, I read
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Andre Agassi's book. Um, I imagine you've read it as well, but going through that, I mean, if you
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were to look at that or read that, could have used this technique at this point. It could have been
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really helpful for him here. I mean, that was that was a really exciting book to read. And I mean,
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you really opened up about the stressors of of his life, especially as it relates to tennis. Yes.
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Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. I mean, and it's a good example, I think, of how what we perceive from the outside
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that people are might or might not be experiencing is might not be at all what they actually are
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experiencing, right? And that obviously doesn't apply just to tennis players or athletes in
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general. That applies to everyone. We have like this view of people like how easy things are for
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them or how great they have it and they are really having a rough time. And sometimes it's the other
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way around. people think like, "Wow, that is like a rough life." And they're actually very content
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and happy. So like the external circumstances and your own kind of perception of how pleasant
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or unpleasant your life is might not always match your own opinion. Yeah. Yeah. So let's dive into
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it. Uh first question, it's a simple one, but how do you define mindfulness? So mindfulness really
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is pretty clearly defined by now in the in the western world in a from a secular perspective.
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But I want to preface that with a lot of people use the word mindfulness now and not everybody
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means the same thing that is pretty important to realize. So one has to dig a little deeper just
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with what do they mean by mindfulness. When you talk about secular mindfulness then generally you
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mean three things. Mindfulness consists of three different skills that you are using simultaneously
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if you are mindfully using all of these three skills. So the first skill is your ability to
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pay attention to what you want for any amount of time. Whether it's one or two seconds or 30
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seconds or longer, right? Whether you move your attention back and forth between different things
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that matter or you keep it on just one thing, whether you have a super narrow focus or it's a
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very broad focus, all of that falls into this. If this is what you want to pay attention to,
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then this is the first skill. And it's just a broad kind of very broad skill that all falls
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under the heading of concentration. Okay. But it has very many many subs skills. Mhm. Um the second
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one is a lot of times what people think of just mindfulness. Um and that's like people call it
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awareness or presence or being in the moment. um you can call it clarity um which is your ability
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to track in real time what you're experiencing. So you can direct your attention somewhere and then
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when you your attention is on it then you can notice something about it. So you're noticing
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details so you're detecting things and you're also distinguishing things from one another. So this
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detection and distinguishing skill is awareness. Okay, that's the second skill you're using. And
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then the third skill you're using, which most people don't even realize it is that it is a
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skill to begin with. meaning they don't realize you could actually train it if you knew how.
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Is your ability to be equally open to pleasant, unpleasant, and neutral experiences without kind
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of suppressing or avoiding what's unpleasant without clinging and holding on to what is
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pleasant and being dismissive to what's neutral. So it's like another option to those three where
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you acknowledge and allow that experience to exist without fighting it. And if you use these
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three skills, you are mindful. Everybody has those skills. Everybody's using those skills,
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but most of the time not intentionally and not in a systematic way. They don't plan on using it.
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they don't adjust those skills if the skills are not working in their favor right all the time and
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therefore over time these skills don't necessarily improve as much as one would like but that's where
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mindfulness training comes in right so just because you are mindful doesn't mean you're
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training it in an effective way so when you do a mindfulness training then that means just you have
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a systematic approach is like okay I'm going to use these three skills in this particular
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way to achieve this goal. Um, and that might be good for a tennis player and for a soccer player
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it might be better to train this particular subskll in this way. And then every athlete
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has different predispositions, different talents and challenges. So even though you might be in
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the same sport and even in the same match, you might have to use the skills differently because
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you're not the same individual experiencing the identical uh identical. Okay, so recapping here,
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three things in terms of mindfulness, ability to pay attention to what you want, awareness and
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clarity, ability to track your own experience, obviously having that detection aspect,
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then also the distinguishing aspect, and then ability to be open to experiences whether they're
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pleasant or neutral. So in terms of performance and mindfulness and performance, do you now take
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these three pillars and make them more specific to performance or does mindfulness mean something
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different in the aspect of athletic performance to you? Yeah, great question. So you take these
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three skills, that's always what you do. And now you just need to understand how do these skills
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apply in your current situation. And if you are a tennis player, then you are in a very specific
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situation where you need to do very specific tasks which limits what you need to pay attention to. It
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limits what you need to notice, what should you be aware of, what is happening to you and what
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are the challenges that you're experiencing. And that is what limits the mindfulness practice or
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activity vastly from being mindful in a way where what most people kind of misunderstand
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as mindfulness. You're like you're sitting with your eyes closed in a lotus position and you're
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calming down or you're doing it while yoga, right? So whatever activity you are engaged in, if it's a
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sport or you're sitting in stillness, you're lying or you're getting a massage or it's a sound bath,
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it's just the activity, how you use these skills is kind of independent from that activity. So you
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can always use these skills. But if you want to enhance your ability to perform within this
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activity, then you need to use these skills in only those ways that support your performance.
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So let's say we go very simple and you uh you're sitting in a Keiser machine and you are doing a
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bench press, right? We know about the mind body connection, right? And a lot of fitness coaches
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are like tapping the muscles. So what is that? It basically just helps the person that's working
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out to first direct their attention to the muscle that they should actually be paying attention to,
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to the one that they should be training. And now the tapping allows them to more easily detect is
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the muscle actually tense or is am I actually not even engaging my chest and I'm using my
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shoulders too much. So now you are using the second skill. You're detecting in real time
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which muscle is really tensing up and supposed to tense up and which one should actually be relaxed.
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And now the third skill can show up by noticing that oh my god like I'm not doing this right and
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I'm maybe getting I'm starting to be frustrated right or in even more simple terms I'm doing six
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seven reps and on the eighth rep I'm starting to be so fatigued that I feel like I can't do
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it anymore and now do I allow this fatigue to be there and the belief that I can't actually
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do it anymore it's okay that that's there and I just continue pressing anyway until I actually
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cannot do it. Not just because I can't believe it, but because the muscle gives in. And already
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you're using the three skills in this particular scenario. But that's very different than what a
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lot of people start with just paying attention to their breath, let's say. Yeah, absolutely.
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And I think moving forward in this conversation because you're so wellversed in the tennis world,
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we can use tennis as an example or draw from the sport of tennis really for an example. But
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I guess my question is a really simple one which is why is mindfulness even important in terms of
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performance? Again using tennis as an example like why why should we even care? I'm sure there are
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plenty of people out there saying I practice. I am very skilled. My technique both technical and
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tactical are great. Uh what element does this really add to my game? And is it important for
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everybody or is there a certain population that really needs this? Right? So that's a
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that's a question for after. But really why is this important? Like yeah um I mean it's pretty
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simple really to understand by realizing how do you perform if any one of these skills is
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absent or weak. So let's say playing tennis and you're about to surf and you need to focus on
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your surf. This could mean a number of things. So, let's say you need to focus on where you
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are supposed to hit the surf or you're supposed to focus on making contact in full extension.
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Let's just take one of those two, right? Okay, that's what your focus needs to be. If your
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focus is somewhere else and you're focusing on the last point instead that you just lost,
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then your focus is not helping your performance. So, that's the first skill. you let's say you
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understand you need to focus on the contact but unwillingly you are focused on the point that you
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just missed. Do you think your surf will be better if you focus on the contact or do you think that
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you your surf will be unaffected by you thinking about the past and focusing on it or maybe on the
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on the audience that is yelling just before your surf, right? Yeah. Yeah. I mean, I play a lot of
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golf and I'll tell you when I focus on a shot that I didn't hit well, it's doesn't help me on
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the next one. Exactly. Exactly. Right. So, that's the first skill. You can see does that skill is
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that skill beneficial to my performance or do I not need it? Second skill, same thing. Now, let's
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say you are paying attention to the ball where you should be hitting it and you need to be aware of
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it. Okay? You need to be aware of full extension. Well, you can be aware of a lot of things. People
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say this very often like you need to be present. You need to be in the moment. But essentially
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that's correct but it's also not very precise because you can be aware of an infinite amount
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of experiences. Mhm. And when you perform you need to be aware of a very finite amount of experiences
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only the ones that matter to you. So, one very common kind of thing that people are unaware
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of until it's too late when they play tennis, even on the surf, is when there's too much tension. So,
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they're hitting the surf and they might be a little nervous. And because they're nervous,
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they tighten up. That tightening up just means your muscles are actually a little bit too tense,
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more tense than they normally are when you're not nervous. So, if you now are not able to detect
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that you are tense. You have no ability to relax. The ability for you to relax your arm
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if it tenses up by itself requires you being able to notice it. If you can't notice it, you can't
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do anything about it. So that's the second skill how it shows up. Does that make sense? Yes. And
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then the third skill, same thing. Let's stick with the example of being nervous while you're serving.
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So if you are nervous just before the serve and you really really have an issue with it,
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you don't want to be nervous and you believe that you can only serve well if you're not nervous and
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you're trying to get rid of the nervousness of the feeling of anxiety, then this feeling will
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have a bigger impact on you. It will draw your attention and you're kind of in an antagonistic
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fighting relationship with this feeling and by fighting it, it is distracting you more. It will
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be much more difficult to pay attention to the ball and relaxing if you're also the whole time in
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a basically um kind of struggle with your feeling of being nervous. So this is how the three skills,
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one example of how these three skills kind of support each other and how they can benefit
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when you're playing. Yeah, it's interesting just thinking about the different sports and not only
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different sports but moments within a sport where you have the opportunity to be thinking
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about these things if needed, right? Like for some people I say it's maybe best in sports we say well
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you know just be dumb, don't think. Mhm. But there are certain moments, baseball, golf, tennis, you
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have these natural pauses where there's actually sometimes maybe too much time to think and that
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can be a negative versus the flow of a basketball game, you know, outside of maybe free throws or
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these brief pauses, I guess it's happening, but it's happening really, really quickly or it's
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absent, you know, this idea of mindfulness. What's your take on that? Like with a sport that is more
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fast-paced. Yeah, perfect. So if you remember like what mindfulness is these three skills at no point
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in time did we say thinking when you are mindful you are not trying to think that is a different
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part of the brain so basically the default mode network certain brain regions that are in charge
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of rumination self-reflection thinking about the past thinking about the future and so forth right
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when you are practicing mindfulness meaning you are using these three skills on purpose. You are
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engaging what is called the experiential network of the brain. That is that part of the brain that
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is in charge of experiencing the senses including your mind. You can be aware of your thoughts or
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you can be aware of tension or relaxation. You can be aware of where the ball is and if it should be
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there. But at no point in time when somebody is trying to be mindful are they trying to think
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intellectually. That is not what you're doing when you're mindful. Even though as an athlete
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of course you need to think sometimes because you need to think strategically right what is the
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next thing that I should do or you need to think through analysis. What did I just do wrong and
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what can I adapt? Okay. So now you are thinking but this analysis or strategic thinking is not
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mindfulness. So when you are taking on a new athlete or beginning to work with a new athlete
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and your rel your your working relationship starts with them. How are you identifying strengths and
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weaknesses within these three pillars? Right? How do you identify which ones they are strong
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at out of the three and which ones will need some work? Is that through questioning? Is that through
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observing? like what's your analysis analysis? Yeah. So, basically it's self-reporting based
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on their practice. Okay. So, most of the time when somebody starts practicing and wants to integrate
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mindfulness, they start because there's something that they feel like they could optimize. So,
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there's some degree of interest, right? They feel like something with their mind, whatever that is,
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is not optimal. So now when you feel like it's not optimal, whatever that might be,
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you don't even have the language yet. You might be say, I'm just so anxious sometimes before matches
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or like I'm so it's so hard for me to focus or I just like don't know how to deal with um with like
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high pressure moments, right? And it kind of ends there. They don't have a lot of more detail. It's
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just like there's an issue. I don't know what to do and now what? Okay. So after that, the first
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step is really to explain and teach the athlete what those skills are. Kind of what we're doing
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right now. And then have them practice the skills. This talking like mindfulness practice is not
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cognitive therapy or or psychotherapy. It is but I need to use language in order to explain to you
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what you need to do. Just like I need to use words to explain to you how to hit a forehand. I could
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demonstrate it also, but maybe it's not going to communicate all the subtlety. So once there is a
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basic understanding of what to do enough so they can attempt to use these skills and hopefully they
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will also start to see how they have already been using the skills in part just not in a strategic
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way. Then you start to report back. They start to report back. Okay, I tried to do this and this
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what you said and this is challenging for me or this I don't understand and I don't know how to do
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this. And then you go into these reports and say okay so in this situation the next time you are
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serving and you're noticing you're getting more anxious before the serve and you're distracted
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you can do X. And doing X is a basically using these three skills in a certain way. And there's
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many different ways to use these three skills. And the athlete has to basically do two things. On the
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one side, they have to start using these skills so they improve over time. But on the other side,
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they also need to experiment with different strategies to figure out which technique and
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which strategy works for them. Because not every technique will be the right one for the same.
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Yeah. And they've probably naturally if they're at a high level probably do some of these things
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really well already. they're just not aware that that is mindfulness, you know, or maybe they are,
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but but it's more so about refining those skills because they're they're up there, you know,
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they're at a high level for a reason, right? Um, so let's I mean, if you're willing, let's use me
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as an example, I guess. I told you I like playing golf. When I go to a nice country club or I go to
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a really nice course, I feel a bit anxious. I'm not alone in that. Why? Because I want to play
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really well at a nice course that I paid for. Um, I don't know why the impact of my play has
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no impact on anything in the world. I have really nothing to lose. I just want to have a enjoyable
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experience there. So, off of the first tea, like many, I'm like, I feel myself getting a little
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ramped up. Even though it probably doesn't matter in my life, but when I go and play a really casual
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round by myself, I feel very relaxed and I often end up playing much better. Yeah. Exactly. So
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help me. First off, right, for you to understand is like whatever technique we will have you try
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the next time you play golf might not work. Just like let's say you can have the ability to swim,
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but if the waves are too high, you're not good enough at swimming yet and you will drown anyway.
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So in order to be able to swim in these kind of waves, you need to swim more, train more. So you
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can handle these bigger waves without drowning. Okay. As a metaphor. So in the same situation,
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telling me I stink. I stink at golf and you can't help me with that. No, no. It's just it depends on
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how intense is this nervousness or anxiety that you're experiencing. And your mindfulness skills
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might not be able yet without training to manage this degree of intensity. If the degree is lower,
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it might, but we don't know. I'm just saying just because you're going to use this set of skills in
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a certain way and it doesn't work doesn't mean it's wrong or you can't do it. It's just your
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skill hasn't trained enough. Okay. So, let me ask you when you are what is the situation
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exactly when you are getting nervous like take me into that moment? Where are you standing? What
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are you doing? Um, usually when I'm warming up, I'll be hitting the ball just fine. Um,
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I'm on the range, right? A couple steps away from maybe the first tee. Um, I'll hit one poorly. I'm
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not very good. Um, but every, you know, I'm an amateur, so every now and then I hit one really,
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really poorly. And I'm like, "Oh man, that wasn't great." And that's a negative thought that
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appears. And now that negative thought is in my head as I start to swing. And I think more about
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the previous poor swing that I took and less about just like enjoying my environment and where I am.
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I find that when I am relaxed, I do play very well. When I'm not like anybody else, I probably
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tense up and all of a sudden mechanics don't feel right. I don't know what really I'm putting. But
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you're still in the driving range. You're warming up or you already now on the tea. Yeah. Yeah.
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Warming up. It typically happens around then. I actually found out that if I don't warm up,
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I tend to play a lot better. I just go out and hit and I just I kind of just stop warming up because
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I'll be warming up just fine and it's one shot and all of a sudden it's like uh oh bad thought and
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now it's I'm thinking about really I don't know what I'm thinking about my mind just starts going
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kind of fast you know great great okay so now tell me when you are playing well okay before you made
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that mistake what are you paying attention to what are you focused on uh usually enjoying my
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environment I'm not really thinking about No, no, not not thinking. But like what you're thinking
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about is just like either words in your head or images in your head. But when you're playing golf,
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you are going to be focusing maybe on watching the ball, on your posture, on your technique, right?
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On how relaxed you are or where you're supposed to be aiming, a technical cue, right? anything that
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you're paying attention to when you're actually swinging, when you're about to hit the golf ball
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on the driving range, when you're feeling relaxed and everything is going well. Yeah, usually my
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body positioning, just where where the ball is, where my feet is, like how close I am to the ball,
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um where my head is in relation to the ball, um am I standing tall, am I slightly hunched over,
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am I too far away? You know, am I sticking my butt out? Um a couple of things like that. and and I
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really focus more on body positioning, I would say. Okay, great. So, you're focused relative
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to the ball. Yeah. Yes. Perfect. Okay. So, you're focused on posture relative to the ball. Mhm. And
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then I'm assuming you're not like rehearsing that in your head saying like, "Oh, my feet need to be
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in this position." And you do it. It's more like you just feel it. You feel it. Maybe you see it
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in your mind. It's a lot more feel. I find that if something goes off then I start thinking about
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that a little more too detailed. Yes. Perfect. Okay. So you when you play well you are focused
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on feeling your body and what you are trying to feel is a certain kind of feeling which you
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experience if you're in the right posture. Right. Is that correct so far? Correct. Yes. Okay. Good.
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Now when So we know where your attention is your body. Yeah, definitely we know what you are aware
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of which is posture relative to the body. Second skill you're doing that already. And are you
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aquinomous? Are you allowing things to be as they are? Yes. Relatively easy in that moment because
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you are relaxed. Meaning there's nothing. You're not overthinking things yet. You're not nervous,
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right? So, it's relatively easy to be aquinomous if there's nothing that you dislike and nothing
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that you are like worried to lose. Yeah. Does that make sense? So, all three skills are active
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in that moment. Okay. Now, you make a mistake once or twice. Now, where does your attention
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go? You already were saying it. Yeah. I I start to overanalyze my body positioning. Um, and you
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and how do you do that? Are you still feeling or analyzing means what? Yeah, I'm really trying to
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like assess more than feel and have a better idea of like, okay, is my foot like perfectly aligned?
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Are my toes pointed forward? Like what I actually start to think about my upper body then and think
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about like, am I actually rotating my body at all or am I not? And when I'm hitting the ball well,
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I'm not thinking about that. When I am hitting it poorly, I'm actually consciously thinking
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about am I rotating my shoulders. Perfect. Okay, great. So now you know when you are playing well,
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you're focused on feeling and you're aware of a certain kind of feeling like we said. And when
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you start playing badly, you are focused on your thoughts. You're not focused on feeling anymore at
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all. Right? And you are now analyzing. So you're not actually tracking anymore. You're more like
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lost in the thought which obviously also we have to point out is not generally wrong. If you make
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a mistake, it's okay to analyze to a degree like is there something that I did wrong. You recap
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for a moment and now you realize yes my foot was turned out too much or my head was too far
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behind. Let's just say okay now with that piece of information knowing that you thought for a moment
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you analyzed now you want to return your attention back to the body and back to being aware of your
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posture relative to the ball including the two new pieces that you figured out through your analysis.
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is your po your head posture and your foot, let's just say, but now you need to feel it. You're not
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thinking about that anymore. That thought just helped you to try to notice that. So now you need
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to notice that. But because you made a mistake, there is a new experience present for you. You
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now also have a feeling of nervousness maybe in the chest. And you might still be thinking, okay,
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you cannot turn your thoughts off with a snap of a finger, right? But just because there are thoughts
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and your mind is thinking, that doesn't mean you need to focus on your thoughts. That would be the
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same thing as saying, I can only focus on hitting the golf ball if there is no one talking behind
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me. It's a it's a voice that you hear behind you, but you can still focus on feeling your body. And
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just as much, if you have thoughts in your mind, you don't have to pay attention to them. You can
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learn to pay attention to what you need to even though you are thinking, but there's no focus
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on thinking, nor are you trying to fight the thoughts. You're not trying to get rid of them.
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If I'm thinking, I can't play. If that's your go-to, you're already done. The moment you start
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thinking, so you start to change your relationship with your thoughts. You're like, "Okay, that's
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what the mind is there for." The mind is there to think, and now I return my attention. So you
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allow those thoughts. You allow the feeling that might be unpleasant if it's there. And you want
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to return your awareness and concentration back to exactly that where it is when you play well.
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And already you are doing a mindfulness practice in that moment. Does that make sense? Yeah,
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it does. So now easier said than done. Your mind might have so much power over you these thoughts
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that they hijack your attention. Right. You will now try to pay attention to your body, but every
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second or two your attention goes back to your thoughts and you get lost in your thoughts.
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Yeah. Okay. So then the waves are too high for that moment. But that means still you will try.
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That's the practice. Practicing doesn't mean doing it perfectly. Practicing means you're trying to
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do something you can't do perfectly and you do it over and over and over time it will improve.
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Okay. I was very helpful. Um next time I go out there I'm gonna shoot you a text.
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Yes. Yes. Exactly. just had a super intrusive thought. Um, acknowledge it and moving on. Yes,
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exactly. And the moving on, remember, does not mean that the thought disappears. It
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means allowing the thought and paying attention to something that you want regardless of the thought
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being present. Got it? Got it. Okay. So when we get now into skill building, okay, and we try
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to pick out specific elements of skills, how do we make it specific to that person's environment
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and background and upbringing? Like how do you break down, let's dive into number two,
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which is awareness and clarity, ability to track, you know, what you're experiencing this detection
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and distinguishing. What's the next breakdown there of subsklls? So um the the breakdown of the
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subs skills is basically you're working on that all the time. It's not like first one and then the
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other. It always depends on just the situation that you're in. And the same thing with the
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breakdown of concentration. So concentration has this basically division into sustained attention
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meaning paying attention to something for a long time. Then the opposite of that which is momentary
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attention paying attention to something for a short time. Selective attention which is your
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ability to pay attention to something if you need to make a choice between two or more relevant
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objects of concentration. And then four which we just talked about executive attention which
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is your ability to pay attention to what you want when there is a distraction. And the distraction
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is not just external but the distraction can be your thought or your feeling and you learn to
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pay attention to something even though there is a force pulling at your attention. So you work on
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and then the subskll of detection and discernment is the is the two divisions within awareness and
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which subskll you are kind of working on will always be determined by the situation that you
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find yourself in. You can't force necessarily all of these subsklls to work. So let's say you are
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playing golf. Then we're the same example. There is no distraction. Well, okay, there is no way for
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you to work on executive attention in that moment. But the moment you start to get distracted, rather
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than looking at that as an issue as like now I'm distracted again, you can actually turn this
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into a positive. This is an opportunity for you to work on the subs skill of your executive attention
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because you can only improve that if there is something distracting you. And this is how we
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individualize the practice for each athlete. So now once somebody starts practicing and they start
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reporting exactly what you reported, right? just in their sport and playing tennis and it's before
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the match or it's during the change of ends and they're saying like this is what's going on and
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but this is what I would want to go on and I don't know how to solve this. We break it down. Okay,
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what are you experiencing? What is challenging for you? And where do you think by your own
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experiences your attention should be? You knew it. I just had to ask three, four questions. Mhm. You
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knew if you're playing well, I'm paying attention to my body. I'm feeling it. I'm not analyzing it.
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So like with every other player, they have that knowledge. They understand that. Yeah. If things
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are going well, this and this is happening. And if you talk about a little bit, they have like a very
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good way to to describe it. And then you start to kind of give them a goalpost. They're like,
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"Now I understand what I try need to try to do even if I can't do it yet." So, I'm sitting at
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the I'm sitting on the bench between games and now I'm just thinking about like how I messed up the
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last game and the mistake that I made in order to get broken. And now you notice those thoughts and
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you turn your attention to the body. The feeling of relaxation would be one technique. you anchor
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your attention away from an unpleasant experience. But there's infinite amount of other techniques.
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And the way you start to tailor the technique to the individual athlete is then really by
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experimenting. There is no way that somebody will tell me every situation that they're in perfectly
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and then that will result in me knowing, oh, that is the technique that will be perfect for you.
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I could not know. They need to figure that out. And the reality is that there is probably not
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one technique that will work all the time. Even in the same situation, it might by it might work
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a few times and maybe after a week or a month or a year, they need to switch it a little bit.
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So the real kind of key to unlock is not to learn three, four, five different techniques that are
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like hopefully this is it and instead you need to learn to create your own techniques. So you are
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adaptable and malleable in every moment. You're not you're not so rigid anymore. Yeah. Do you
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find that when athletes start speaking to you, you have two groups or two buckets? Do you have those
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that tend to think a lot and those that tend to feel like when they describe what they're feeling
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versus thinking or it could just be a mixture? Yeah. All three. All three. I mean there people
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some people feel like everything is in their head. Yeah. Because all of their attention is there. The
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reality is everybody is experiencing everything mostly. Right. Of course some people get more
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anxious, other people get more angry, other people are calmer in general, right? I mean everybody has
00:38:19.200 --> 00:38:25.840
different nervous systems and reacts differently. But that being said, the fun uh fundamental
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principles still apply. Everybody is experiencing emotions, right? Everybody reacts in some shape
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or form. And then the question is just but what experience is drawing their attention? So, if one
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group of athletes might mostly pay attention to what's going through their head and they
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hardly ever notice what's going on in their body, right? Not because nothing is going on, it's just
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they don't pay attention to it. So, it seems like nothing is going on and it's all in their head.
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And then the flip side is true, too. Some people are just paying attention to what they're feeling.
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They're very interraceptively aware, right? but they're not very aware of their thought processes
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and so their mind is doesn't seem like that big of an issue but what they feel is a huge issue like
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I get so anxious the feeling is so terrible right yeah that like I can't handle it and
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then there is a very big group in the middle that experiences that notices both but sometimes more
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the mind sometimes more what they feel Can you go into detail a little bit about the impact that
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mindfulness can have on enhancing recovery? Yeah. So, with recovery, there's like two big um kind
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of buckets within recovery, I would say, right? One is just like the recovery from intensity like
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you're breaking your body down on purpose with every training session. And now, how can you
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enhance recovery? So your body is at a state where you can kind of break it down again. And then
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there is the recovery from injury. You actually injured your body structurally and now you have
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a break of a week or 3 months after 9 months after an ACL surgery or something like that.
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So let's talk about like the general recovery first. Okay, you're not actually injured. So in
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that case we know that the most effective way to recover the most important is sleep. Without sleep
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you're dunzo basically. How does mindfulness help sleep? First there needs to be an issue
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with sleep some kind right either you just have trouble sleeping in general or that's one thing.
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So mindfulness is very helpful in certain cases there and we can talk about that. And then the
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other one is you don't have a general issue with sleeping. you just don't have a good good sleep
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hygiene. Like your behavior impacts negatively your sleep routine and therefore you don't sleep
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so well because you drink too much alcohol or you look too much on your you're doom scrolling before
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you're going to sleep or when you wake up you go on your phone you know and read emails from your
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boss that's upset or whatever it may be. Yeah. So in either case, mindfulness shows up there
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because when you want when you are supposed to sleep, you intellectually understand sleeping
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would be right, but you're doing something that is making your sleep worse. Most of the
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time you will be doing something that you want to be doing. There is a desire to look at the phone,
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right? There is a desire to stay out and drink with your friends and go to bed later. It's not
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that you don't understand that doing this activity isn't good for you. It's just you don't prioritize
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the sleep. You want to have fun right now or you want to do this. Again, not because you don't like
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sleeping. You don't have an aversion towards sleeping. You just have a very strong desire
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towards this one activity that just happens to interfere with sleeping. So the third skill that
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we were talking about was allowing experiences to exist, right? Without clinging to them if they
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are pleasant, without suppressing them if they are unpleasant. So if there is a let's go very
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simple. I'm in bed. Okay. I even planned on going to sleep right now and I look at my phone and now
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I open up social media and I sleep and I just want to scroll. You can notice this desire. You do not
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need the desire to disappear in order to be able to put the phone down. Just like you don't need
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the thought of analysis of your golf swing to disappear in order to pay attention to feeling
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the body. But in either case, that requires this third skill, your ability to try to be okay with
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the thought and to try to be okay with like the urge to look at your phone. So there is a urge,
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there is the desire to look at your phone. But with more mindfulness, you start to be able to
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do things that you understand are good for you in the future, even though in this very
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second they're unpleasant. So it's basically delayed gratification. With more mindfulness,
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you're not acting exclusively anymore on desire and aversion. I want it, I do it. Disregarding the
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consequences and I don't want it, I'm not doing it also regardless of the consequences. And with
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mindfulness, you start to be able to do more of the things that are good for you, whether they
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are pleasant right now or you don't like them so much, right? and vice versa. You start to be able
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to do fewer of the things that are not so good for you. Even though you really like it, but you
00:44:29.280 --> 00:44:35.600
understand it's not helpful. But I mean, everybody has that understanding. Everybody in the world who
00:44:35.600 --> 00:44:42.240
smokes knows it's not good to smoke. Everybody who really sleeps badly knows sleep not sleeping
00:44:42.240 --> 00:44:47.200
enough isn't good for their energy the next day and for many other things. Everybody who drinks a
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lot of alcohol knows, understands intellectually it's not good for me. But it doesn't matter
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to the degree, right? But that is like also a perfect kind of example of how
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your intellectual understanding of things is not sufficient. It doesn't equal skills.
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under explaining to somebody how they need to do a bench press or explaining how they need to swing
00:45:14.560 --> 00:45:22.080
the golf club or me explaining how to do a surf doesn't mean I can do it better than them. I was
00:45:22.080 --> 00:45:30.400
just giving this example to another client the other day like I know more intellectually than
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any current pro on the tour. I know more about the forehand, how it works biomechanically,
00:45:35.760 --> 00:45:41.680
how to teach it, what it does, all the nuances, but and I have a good forehand and I've played
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tennis for many years, but my forehand is not as good as anybody on the tour right now. So,
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what you understand intellectually and what you are able to do, it is not directly correlated.
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It's just supportive in the best case scenario. Right. Right. So in the same case, this is where
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mindfulness comes in comes in for recovery, for sleep. I know, I understand this is not
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good for me, but just because I know it, it's not enough. I need to be able to develop this ability
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to allow the things that I really want to do, but I know they're not good for me to be there. Okay.
00:46:23.200 --> 00:46:30.240
So there is this desire and I don't have to act on it. Not only if the desire isn't there
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anymore. That's what everybody is trying to not everybody but a lot of people solution is get rid
00:46:37.280 --> 00:46:44.160
of the desire then I'm free. That's not the real freedom. The real freedom is whether the desire
00:46:44.160 --> 00:46:49.120
is there or not and you are not forced to act on it then you are really free. Yeah. Thank you
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for providing insight on that. And one thing I was thinking about as you were talking was
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ultimately as athletes or as high performers, we always experience frustration and frustration is
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inevitably something that you will go through during the course of your performance. So how
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do you work with those emotions of frustration? How do you implement mindfulness to combat those
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feelings or to get you back into a place where you can perform at a high level? Yeah. Great. I mean
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frustration is very interesting actually because frustration is in no shape or form a bad thing.
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Actually frustration essentially means you care you want to achieve something you're trying to do
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it it's not happening and if you care about it and what you care about isn't happening the way you
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want it you're a natural reaction to that will be that you're frustrated. So no issue so far,
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right? Mhm. The issue becomes when you act on your frustration meaning or rather I should say
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you react to your frustration and this reaction is not in your best interest. If your reaction
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is in your best interest then not even that is a bad thing. So that we have to kind of uncouple
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that from one another. So first thing frustration is not a bad thing. Okay. It can be good and it
00:48:14.000 --> 00:48:23.520
can be not so good for you. One of the benefit beneficial elements of frustration is actually
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I think Huberman talked about that very kind of eloquently in one of his millions of episodes
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is how frustration is really an essential part of the learning process. So when you start to
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do something that you're not so good at, you make mistakes, right? And right by making mistakes your
00:48:43.520 --> 00:48:52.320
brain enters a mode of plasticity. So once your brain is in a mode of plasticity, meaning it can
00:48:52.320 --> 00:48:58.080
change and adapt based on your experience, you can now basically start learning more effectively. If
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you now get frustrated while you're making these mistakes, the benefit to that is is that once you
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do get it right, there will be an increased release of dopamine and epinephrine and that
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is beneficial for your learning process. So, the only time frustration is a negative, so to speak,
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for your performance is if frustration results in you either quitting or starting to do things that
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are really not good for your performance. But other than that, if you are frustrated and you
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kind of hang in there and you once again allow the frustration, you understand the benefits of
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frustration in the long term, you can get to the point where you enjoy being frustrated because you
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know how good it will be for you. Does that make sense? It makes a ton of sense. I can't wait to
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rewire myself and and experience a little bit of frustration. Yes, I'm frustrated. Let's go.
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Exactly. That's how I'm going to start reacting. Yes. Just a feeling of frustration. Uh-huh. Yes.
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Yes. Yes. Fascinating. So, okay. A lot to chew on here. A lot of great things you've shared and and
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I'm already thinking about myself, my previous performances, where I could have used some of
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this and and how I can use this moving forward in my recreational golf game. Could you share
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I mean I know you work with a lot of athletes now especially those on tour like you had mentioned.
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Can you maybe share is there a story or two regarding mindfulness this implementation of
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mindfulness that you know you constantly go back to or that you think about as like a success story
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or something you'd want to share? Yeah, I mean there's a lot of stories actually because we're
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also writing the book right now. The B of the book is many many stories like that. Uh maybe I
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will like start with a story where Mike who I'm writing the book with his very first match that
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he played on tour in singles was at the US Open against Agassi who was you know you're talking
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about Agassy and he was his big idol you know right and he plays him he's young center court
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full stadium and he was so anxious and so nervous that He basically didn't pay any attention to
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playing the match. All he was paying attention to was how John McEnroe was kind of watching him and
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commentating and thinking about what John Meenroe thought about how he was playing. Was he doing a
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good job? Right. And then and then all of a sudden four games later he's like he was just playing
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on autopilot and thinking about everything and totally mind wandering while playing tennis. Okay.
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While it was the most horrific experience of his life because he was so anxious and so nervous that
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after the first set he was totally drained and like basically couldn't run anymore. Right. The
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success story of this is that this was such a hor horrific experience for him. And this was going on
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for 4 days because he saw the draw playing against Agassi four days before he played the match. And
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for 4 days he was freaking himself out like what he's going to do and this and that and his coach
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is telling him like you have to focus on this, you have to be positive, right? and everything that he
00:52:31.360 --> 00:52:38.960
did was just like failing miserably. Without this experience though, without four days of suffering
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and struggling and playing on the biggest stage in t the tennis world against the biggest tennis
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player at that time made him realize, wow, I mean his mind is really out of control. If something
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starts to matter to him so much, it doesn't matter how good he's at tennis, he can't play. He's like
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below 50% capacity basically at that moment. And it resulted in him being so motivated to
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develop his mind that he started to meditate for the next 30 years slowly progressively increasing
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it increasing it increasing it. And now there's a few players that have been meditating you know in
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all the sports we've heard about it. Jookovich has talked about it but I mean this is a little
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hypothetical but like we know a lot of players and of players of course I don't think there is
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a single tennis player in the world in the history of tennis that has meditated more than Mike he has
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now meditated for 30 years somewhere between one to four hours a day training his mind spending the
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same amount of time developing his mind that he has spent developing his body and his technical
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techical and strategical skills. And it's a it's a very inspiring story, very kind of funny and
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eyeopening. And so I hope that if we communicate that well enough also in the book that people will
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kind of see themselves in it like everything that he has experienced in part they have experienced
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and if he was able to kind of pull through that that basically every anybody can. Yeah. And I
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can't even imagine what that feeling was like. He probably was on another planet. Didn't even
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realize he was playing a tennis match. Yeah. Um, so I've come to learn too that you're now
00:54:32.160 --> 00:54:37.920
teaching as a professor a course on mindfulness at USC, right? Mhm. Can you tell us a little about
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that course and just like this opportunity and Yes, that's great. actually you know when I went
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started integrating mindfulness into tennis around like 15 years ago or so and I kind of made that my
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main focus you know tennis was my focus my whole life and then I started practicing mindfulness
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for myself kind of really noticing like like all the weaknesses of myself and also like Mike
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basically being motivated to change those once I realized this is actually possible right because
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I learned about it heard about it and then I started teaching it my big goal like big dream
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of mine was to incorporate that into universities because I kind of studied like did the mindfulness
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training at UCLA. One of my first attempts was incorporating mindfulness for athletes in UCLA,
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but that kind of like a little difficult in universities in general because of the
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politics and it's complicated kind of like a lot of people involved. And then many years later I
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get approached by Linda Yarren Weston who kind of started the mindfulness course at USC as like
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a two unit elective and she brought me in because she had heard of me incorporating into sports and
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there's just not that many people doing that. Most people are kind of focused on people really having
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a hard time suffering, you know, kind of just some kind of a disorder. And my focus was more like
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there's a lot of people doing that, but I also want to focus on people who just love what they're
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doing and they want to use mindfulness to improve what they're already doing, not only because you
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feel like you've hit rock bottom. And she liked that so much that she said well once you come
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into the university like maybe hopefully at one point there will be the opportunity to launch your
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own course for athletes also. And now a few years later so that was last year three semesters ago I
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started the first introduction to mindfulness with athletic performance course at USC which has never
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existed there and now I'm teaching three courses on that and I love it. It's that population of
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like young students, you know, and their twist and being open is is one of my favorite things I do.
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It really is like a great group of people and I'm there with them sharing with them what's possible,
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things that they don't know about yet and it it has a great impact on them. So, yeah,
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that's really cool. That's that's really exciting and I'm glad that you have that opportunity and
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to start having these conversations with people who are maybe interested in performance, younger
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athletes, even just younger populations where hey, maybe this doesn't maybe don't even go into sport
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in the future, but it's something they're just conscious of with their own life experiences
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outside of that. I think there's a broader application to that. Um, I have just like one or
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two more questions. Actually, one I was thinking about, which I should have followed up with,
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was if you could go back to that moment with Mike versus Agassi and you could have a moment to talk
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with Mike in the middle of that match, what would you have said to him or how would you have helped
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him if you were on the sideline there and you had a chance to say something to him? Great. I think
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then we're going back to the ocean waves like he was in a tsunami. There is probably nothing. I
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mean one cannot know until one is in the moment. Most likely I think the the best potential effect
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one could have had is if somebody would have been around him that he knows well that actually
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is mindful that it bas because it emanates just like how somebody if they get very very nervous
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right and they're an important person to you and you're like you're so nervous you're freaking me
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out. It like affects you. It's the opposite way also. If you have somebody around you where these
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three skills are noticeably elevated and you are very very nervous and you're anxious and you have
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somebody around you who's just totally cool like okay so you're nervous like I'm not trying to
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convince you to get rid of it. I think that is one of the things that could have been very effective.
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Another thing that could have been very effective is breathing protocols. You know, they definitely
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work. They're very effective, but they're also limited. If you're experiencing such a heightened
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state of arousal and you are emotionally and psychologically completely overwhelmed and you
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can't remove yourself from that situation. It's just you got to suffer. You're going to go through
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it and then the best thing that can happen is if you learn from it. And that is what he did, you
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know. So yeah, there would have been I would have probably not said that much. I would have given
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him some simple tools breathing and I've been with him and just being like it's okay. Not overanalyze
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and analytically explain to him how he doesn't have to be identified with his mind and you know
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he can turn his attention somewhere else. That's like in those moments it's not going to be it. I
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probably would have said something like remember if you're frustrated this is a good thing. It's
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what you do with it. Uh yeah. Um, okay. And then as you assess all the athletes you've worked with,
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you look at these top performers and you look at these top performers with your mindfulness
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glasses on. Is there one trait, one of these three pillars, one skill in particular that
01:00:06.720 --> 01:00:11.360
stands out where you say these people that tend to be successful? Of course, there's a tactical
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aspect to it and tactical, but is there one aspect that you see high performers, they share this one
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skill that they do particularly well? Yeah. Yeah, I mean it's really from a mindful lens,
01:00:23.920 --> 01:00:30.160
right? Not not the physical aspect of it, the strategical aspect. Generally, what they share is
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that they have a natural if they haven't developed these skills like in a systematic way because
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they try trained them knowingly. Doesn't mean they didn't train them. It was just more intuitive, but
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their intuitive approach still was effective. So they these skills improve, right? And you can hear
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it over and over and over with the most successful athletes they are very economous. It doesn't mean
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that when they lose it doesn't sting. Just take now sinner. He lost the French Open. Like that is
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one of the most heartbreaking losses in tennis history probably. And he acknowledged that. He
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doesn't pretend it's not hurting him but he's like but it's okay. This is going to hurt for a while,
01:01:14.960 --> 01:01:23.360
right? This means like a few weeks at least and but it's okay. That is equinimity in action. He
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is acknowledging it, accepting it and but now turning his attention to what can I do next?
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While I am sad or while I am very frustrated or upset about this loss of what happened,
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I allow it to be there. But I don't fight it. I'm not trying to get rid of it early, right?
01:01:44.640 --> 01:01:51.920
or dwelling in it for weeks and weeks and months. And when you listen back to Serena and when you
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listen to Ana Simova who lost the Wimbledon final, right? six I don't even know what it was six love
01:01:58.720 --> 01:02:04.240
six love or 61 six love or something and then how she kind of approached that loss and what
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she took away from it or Nadal or I mean so many athletes you can hear and see and feel even though
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it's a little bit more challenging through like just the screen but you can sense how yeah this
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stings but they're okay they are learning to allow and accept failure, loss, emotional unpleasantness
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of sadness, frustration, anxiety, fear as part of the process. It's part of it. And that elevates
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your ability to move in the right direction and not get stuck tremendously. And you can see the
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flip side for athletes that are very good. They have a lot of potential physically, strategically,
01:02:59.760 --> 01:03:06.720
let's say like curios, okay, was a good example. He would get very very upset and he would react
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to being upset and often this was not in his best interest. It didn't help his performance. Right?
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So that is definitely one of a few things from a mindful perspective. what differentiates like the
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top from from the greats, you know, let's even say nobody can say Kiras wasn't a great tennis player,
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but there's still a difference, right? And it's not it's not the forehand for sure. Yeah, that's
01:03:34.480 --> 01:03:39.120
interesting. What I hear from you is like there's this ability to dissociate the performance,
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the frustration and like acknowledge it and then move on. Yes. Exactly. Exactly. And the moving on
01:03:48.000 --> 01:03:54.160
doesn't mean that it disappears. the frustration, the moving on really refers to you allowing it
01:03:54.160 --> 01:03:59.680
and paying attention to something else that is relevant right now that's helpful to you. Yeah.
01:03:59.680 --> 01:04:03.920
Moving forward, right? Even though you're carrying that even though you're carrying it behind you,
01:04:03.920 --> 01:04:11.440
moving forward with it. Yeah. Super cool. Um it's it's fun. I love hearing athletes,
01:04:11.440 --> 01:04:15.920
you know, talk about their performance afterwards. I love the postgame talk, especially in individual
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sports because it's only them. they're responsible for their performance. Scotty Shuffler has been a
01:04:20.800 --> 01:04:25.680
great example on the golf side of things. Talking about, you know, not how he talks about failure,
01:04:25.680 --> 01:04:31.520
but how he talks about success. He's like, success is a very fleeting feeling. Like he goes, "Yeah,
01:04:31.520 --> 01:04:35.360
you celebrate after 4 days and you're like, okay, you're on to the next thing and it's gone." Like,
01:04:35.360 --> 01:04:38.720
he had a few moments to celebrate and then you're like thinking about the next thing. Like,
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yes. Exactly. Right. Exactly. And he talked about his struggles with enjoying success. I mean, this
01:04:44.240 --> 01:04:50.720
is the most successful golfer in a very long time. and he's like, "Yeah, I don't even really know how
01:04:50.720 --> 01:04:54.480
to enjoy this experience because it's just on to the next thing." So, it's been cool. But,
01:04:54.480 --> 01:04:59.680
he's done a great job being able to dissociate like himself as a person from himself as a golfer,
01:04:59.680 --> 01:05:05.360
which has been kind of unique. But, um, okay. Well, cool. So, Christian, for anyone who wants to
01:05:05.360 --> 01:05:10.080
learn more about mindfulness, for anyone who wants to follow what you're doing, um, the work that
01:05:10.080 --> 01:05:16.960
you're involved in, where can they go to learn more or to follow you? Yeah. Also, I have a online
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course that you can take for athletes that's called Mindsize Sports. Mindsetports.com. That's
01:05:22.960 --> 01:05:30.000
definitely one option that you have. Otherwise, if you're not so interested in mindfulness in sports
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and it's just mindfulness in general, right? Then something I recommend is called unified
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mindfulness. These are all like online platforms just for accessible for everyone at a very low
01:05:40.560 --> 01:05:47.040
cost. Yeah. And then of course, you know, there's like a lot of people that in person you can go to,
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but I'm not going to recommend that since people are like all over the place. So, I don't know all
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the places in the world. Um, well, cool. Yeah. Make sure that we put those in the episode notes
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so that people can see that. And if someone wants to reach out to you, maybe they have some
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questions or follow me. I mean, I'm not very on my website. Okay. Yeah, straa.la. You can get a hold
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of me. Basically, I'm not like I have social media accounts, but I'm not like really active. Maybe if
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you guys post something, I will repost, but that's probably the first time in like 4 years or so. But
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yeah, over my website and there there is an email link and so anybody can reach out to me. Yeah,
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you're going to be in bed doom scrolling. You're going to say, I know looking at this Keiser post
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of me talking isn't the best thing for me right now, but I'm going to do it. Christian, thank you
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so much for joining me today on the Keiser human performance podcast. We really appreciate your
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time. It's always a pleasure catching up with you to hear all the great things that you're doing,
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the impact you're making on, you know, people's lives, not just in performance, but people
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outside of performance as well. So, thank you so much for your time. We appreciate it and I
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can't wait to catch up with you soon. Awesome. Likewise, Gabe. It was awesome talking to you.
About Our Guest
Mindfulness-based mental performance specialist with 40 years inside competitive tennis. USC faculty. Co-authoring a book on mindfulness and tennis with Mike Bryan.
IG: @straka.la
Website: https://www.straka.la
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